"This book came to her like an olive branch. It assured her of God's love for man, of man's love of God: in the ever-lengthening shadow of Hitler and Mussolini her faith was restored, and the comfortable mediations of her minister found lodging" (84)
"Once and a while she would be on the point of questioning her husband, but, after thinking it over, she realized she would be asking silly questions, and he was so overburdened with business problems that she did not want to distract him. Besides, there was not much she herself could not accomplish" (86)
"There's so much scandal and fraud everywhere you turn, and I suppose the papers only print what they want us to know" (86)
"In fact, now that there was no danger involved she had trouble finishing the book; she thought it would be better in a magazine digest" (87)
"And when the moment finally came she pulled the lever recording her wish for the world to remain as it was" (88)
"Unanimity was so gratifying" (89)
"She wondered if he had wept when he learned what had happened, and if he tried to apologize for having allowed her to go home alone that night, or whether he had been with her and had been frightened away by the man's gun. Or had he been struck over the head? Did he still respect her?" (91)
"...she clothed Leda in a flower dressmaker bathing suit not unlike her own" (93)
"She never forgot this moment when she had almost apprehended the very meaning of life, and of the stars and planets, yes, and the flight of the earth" (94)
"To be afraid is, I tell you, Madame, the most terrible thing in the world" (96)
"'Well,' observed Mrs. Bridge the moment the story ended, 'I'm certainly grateful times have changed'" (103)
"'No name,' said Harriet, 'and he looks suspicious'" (103)
"...then she snatched the comb and broke it in half" (113)
"...and wondered if, as a chaperon, she could flatly order one of the stags to dance with Naomi. She had a feeling there would be trouble if she attempted this." (118)
"...consciously beyond the limit: Mrs. Bridge knew it immediately from the girl's apprehensive eyes...the horrifying part of it had been that the girl's back was turned to her partner" (120)
"but because she wanted Carolyn to learn to judge people she said nothing" (120)
"but a moment afterward she thought of the night some twenty years ago when she had barely resisted the pleas of a boy whose very name she had long forgotten" (122)
"I believe not until next week on the customary evening" (125)
"Is my daughter mine?" (134)
"He laughed, and his laughter rang out odd and bold, the laughter of a different man, a free and happy man" (139)
A ridiculous amount of quotes, I know. But there were so many important ones in this chapter. Anyways.
1. I think at this point, it is well established that Mrs. Bridge, to some degree, has internalized sexism. We are now seeing constant allusions to her innate fear of rape, and a sense that sexism limits her personal agency; she doesn't believe she can do anything because of how linked she is with her husband. Yet, I think more in this chapter we see the issue of sexuality emerge for her children; we see Carolyn's argument with Jay, and Ruth's -- propensity -- for Chippendale's dancers. Chippendale's, by the way, is male strip club. Just for fun, I put in the description on their website below... Anyways. A quote that particularly jumped out at me was when Ruth was reading her mother's letter, describing it as "guidance of another era" (140). One might argue that Ruth and Carolyn's problems are fundamentally different than Mrs. Bridge's -- not only because of the time change, but because of how they handle it -- Carolyn with maturity, Ruth simply bypassing the problem altogether by embracing sexuality. Yet, at the same time they seem similar, all women fearing for themselves. So question one: can you compare the issues with sexuality that Mrs. Bridge faces to the ones that her children face? Are they the same? Are there fundamental differences? And the real question: if there are differences (and I think they are), can you blame them all on the time difference and cultural shifts? Or is there something innately fearful about Mrs. Bridge that her children lack, allowing her to handle the situation differently?
"Chippendales Las Vegas is a mantastic, sex-god, abs party that will make you lose your damn mind… in the best way of course! "
A complicated question, I know, but I think it gets at the heart of the text -- is this simply a cultural issue, with Mrs. Bridge being the victim of her society or is there something deeper about her?
2. What do you make of Tarquin's fate? It was incredibly disconcerting to me, particularly because it so closely mirrors Ruth getting ready to punch her mother. Can you compare these two incidences? How do you think Mrs. Bridge can gain the respect of her kids back? Was Tarquin's fate inevitable?
3. The last quote I put up, the one about Mr. Bridge: can y'all get to the bottom of this? Why was he so happy, and free? Is it because he got rid of a child? Why do you think he cares so much more about where Carolyn goes than where Ruth goes?
And dobermans!!!!!